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RULES & ETIQUETTE FAQ

RULES AGREEMENT:

  • I've read the rules! Do I still need to fill in the form?

  • Do I need to have bought a ticket to agree to the rules?

    • Answer: No - Anyone can read the rules and agree to them using the form - even before they've purchased a ticket. (In fact, we prefer people do it that way!)

  • If I didn't buy the tickets, how do I use the form to get the password?

    • Answer: You don't need to have bought tickets to read the rules and fill in the form - but, ticket holders will be prompted to remind those they are attending with to ensure they've read the rules and filled in the form. Every individual attendee is responsible for themselves when it comes to reading, understanding and agreeing to the rules. No-one can agree to them for you.

  • Does this change mean that if the rules don't change, then the password doesn't either?

    • Answer: At the moment, yes. We're still examining the potential benefits and drawbacks of using per-event passwords.

  • Is this different to the Photo Gallery passwords?

    • Yes, it is. The event passwords won't work for the event gallery and vice-versa.

  • What do I do if the form doesn't load/something doesn't work?

  • Will I still have to fill in the form if I pay on the door?

    • Answer: Yes! We've bought a tablet specifically for this purpose, just in case someone doesn't have a smartphone or if they don't have any data left, etc.

  • What if I don't want to give you my details digitally/on the door?​

    • Answer: Then you won't be granted entry to our events. We need some basic personal information (Name, Photo ID, e-mail address) from our attendees for ticketing, safety and licencing purposes.​

  • What do I do if I'm still unsure about something?

VOYEURISM:

  • Can I still watch/be a voyeur?

    • Answer: Yes! Watch. We have three spaces for dedicated public play and voyeurism. But attendees and voyeurs are not permitted to ask to join folks in active scenes and must keep at a reasonable distance away from participants.

  • What do you mean by 'active scene?'​

    • Answer: When we say active scene, we mean any activity that is happening in a public play area (Dungeon, Open Playrooms) between two or more attendees. This could involve any element of play or sexual activity. If it's still an active scene, then attendees must not interrupt those scenes or ask to join in. â€‹

  • Can I approach/ask people when they're not in an active scene?

    • Absolutely - We encourage attendees to talk to each other and have open conversations about wants/desires, activities, boundaries, safeguards and sexual health. We also want attendees to approach other attendees in a respectful, mindful way. Don't just wander around the social areas of the club asking every single attendee if they 'want to play.' ​

  • What if we don't want voyeurs?

    • Answer: Then you'll need private room.

  • Do I have to offer invites out if I want voyeurs to join in?

    • Answer: Yes, if you're in a public play room. Glory Holes are the exception to this rule, of course.

  • Is it a good idea to talk to the people I want to play with in advance?

    • Answer: Yes! Always a good idea. Set your wants, limits, safe-words, discuss your sexual health.

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